
A young gay man drifts through dating apps, hookups and heartbreak in an intimate portrait of desire, loneliness and the search for connection.
Synopsis
At 23, Christian spends his days moving between dating apps, casual encounters and memories of a relationship he cannot leave behind. Each new match promises connection, yet every encounter seems to deepen the distance between the intimacy he longs for and the life he is actually living.
Rather than following a conventional love story, DREAMS AND ASHES unfolds as a series of emotional fragments, tracing the rhythms of queer dating culture in the digital age. Swipes become habits, conversations dissolve, and desire shifts constantly between excitement, vulnerability and exhaustion.
Without judging its protagonist, the film captures the contradictory experience of searching for closeness in spaces built for endless possibility. What begins as an exploration of sex and attraction gradually reveals itself as a portrait of grief, self-worth and the lingering hope that someone might finally stay.
Directed by Marius Gabriel Stancu and led by a striking performance from Rex Leonard, DREAMS AND ASHES offers an honest, deeply personal reflection on queer intimacy, loneliness and the emotional realities of modern dating.
- Director
- Ludvig Christian Næsted Poulsen
- Genres
- Queer, Love & Sex
- Duration (min)
- Year
- Country
- Denmark
- Rating
- 16
- Audio
- Danish
- Subtitles
- German











