
THE GOOD MANNERS is a queer drama of desire and repression, following a shy teen whose family visit at the farm awakens a buried secret.
Synopsis
THE GOOD MANNERS follows Valeria, a quiet 17-year-old who prefers to dance alone. When her parents take her to the family farmhouse to celebrate her grandparents' golden wedding anniversary, she is forced to share a room with her cousin Sol, whom she has not seen for years. During the week they spend together, a fragile space opens for desire, curiosity and unease.
What begins as a family gathering gradually becomes an intimate coming-of-age story. Surrounded by her parents' expectations and the weight of family tradition, Valeria experiences a sexual awakening that unsettles her while bringing her closer to Sol. As the days pass, a dark family secret slowly comes to the surface.
The film explores how desire, silence and family control shape the search for identity. Rather than treating repression as an abstract idea, THE GOOD MANNERS reveals how it is embedded in everyday gestures, inherited customs and the things families choose not to say. Its queer perspective lends emotional depth to this intimate conflict.
Written by Santiago León Cuéllar and Michelle Lamus Betancur and directed by Santiago León Cuéllar, THE GOOD MANNERS is a restrained coming-of-age drama about family, secrecy and self-discovery. Through its quiet, observational approach, the film offers a nuanced portrait of adolescence, belonging and forbidden desire.
- Director
- Santiago León Cuéllar
- Duration (min)
- Year
- Country
- Colombia
- Rating
- 16
- Audio
- Spanish
- Subtitles
- German


















